It may not be your first time down the aisle, but that doesn’t mean there’s less planning to do! Use the following checklist to make your second wedding wonderful and special:
12 or More Months Before
- Decide on the guest list
- If you have children, ask them to be part of the wedding party
- Begin the search for ceremony and reception sites
- Create a budget
- Start shopping for a dress
- Book the photographer and videographer
- Book your florist
- Start thinking about the entertainment–DJ? Band? iPod?
Six to Eight Months Prior
- Create the menu
- Choose attendant dress color, but let them pick the actual dresses
- Begin honeymoon planning
- Start working on a song list
Four to Six Months Prior
- Attend pre-wedding counseling (if desired)
- Start browsing for invitations
- Shop for wedding rings
- Choose the groom’s attire
Three Months Prior
- Hire wedding day transportation
- Order the rings
- Order family medallions (for placing around the neck it each child–it symbolizes the creation of a new family!)
- Finalize the guest list
- Attend parties in your honor, such as a bridal shower
Two Months Prior
- Mail the invitations
- Make wedding programs
- Attend final dress fittings
One Month Prior
- Make any last-minute adjustments regarding music and flowers
- Make a list of favorite songs, along with ones you don’t want the DJ or band to play, if applicable
Two Weeks and Counting
- Apply for a marriage license
- Get a haircut, or at least a trim
- Contact guests who haven’t RSVPed
One Week Prior
- Provide caterers with a final headcount
- Make a seating chart
- Confirm all arrangements
Two to Three Days Prior
- Get a manicure
- Double-check the flower order
- Write all final checks
- Ask someone to return rented items after the wedding
- Ask someone to deal with all wedding-related questions
- Provide caterers/DJs/other professionals with an emergency phone number for contacting you the day of the wedding
Night Before
- Attend the rehearsal dinner
- Enjoy a restful night of sleep
Day Of
- Get ready
- Relax
- Enjoy!
Use this checklist to keep you on your game throughout the planning process! Have fun!
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